How to Attract a Scorpio Man As a Cancer Man

Be open to trying new things.

Cancers and their reluctance to try new things can easily bore Scorpios. Scorpios can be irritated when their ideas are rejected because they want things done their way. They would prefer to be with someone who is open-minded and adventurous. Scorpios also require a partner who will agree with their wild ideas rather than try to slow them down. Simply put, a scorpion does not want to be with someone who holds them back. Trying new things with your Scorpion extends beyond skydiving or bungee jumping; do something daring, such as kayaking with whales, scuba diving, or exotic car driving to satisfy their appetite for new experiences.

Dress to impress, but don't stress too much about your appearance.

Obsessing about your appearance is a turnoff for many Scorpios. Scorpio men are more interested in your personality and character than in what you choose to wear on the first date. It is still important to look good for yourself, but don't be concerned about impressing him. A Scorpio will be more impressed by your confidence than by your physical appearance. Concentrate on getting to know him on a personal level. As for dressing to impress, go for deep reds, such as burgundy, crimson, and maroon, as well as black, blue, and midnight--these are the colors that Scorpio prefers. Scorpios are said to be intense, just like their favorite colors.

Don't share too much too soon, but do share with him.

If you want to date a Scorpio, you shouldn't reveal everything about yourself all at once. There are some things you should keep to yourself at the start of the relationship to keep him interested in you. If you keep some aspects of your life hidden from him, he will be even more interested in what you have to offer, so provide a little bit of mystery. Scorpio men will love you even more if you prove to be a fascinating person outside of him. If you're one of those people who talk when they're nervous–and who isn't nervous on first dates--try to keep it under control. Scorpios lose respect for anyone who tells everything, especially if you reveal your secrets too soon.

Be truthful with your Scorpio.

Scorpios seek stable, long-term relationships. They have the "all or nothing" attitude. When they want someone in their life, they take it very seriously. Don't send mixed signals to your guy and play mind games with him—they can get angry and lose interest. Scorpio men want to spend their lives with someone who is trustworthy and takes a relationship seriously. Scorpio's jealousy can be overpowering at times. However, this is simply due to their strong desire to be in control. This can also be related to a Scorpio's possessiveness. Scorpios will never forgive or forget a partner who cheats on them. Some people have go-with-the-flow personalities and can't hold their rage for long. However, as a Scorpio, they are likely to hold on to feelings of hurt and anger.

Build trust with him.

Being as truthful as possible is the best way to gain a Scorpio man's trust. Being sincere and honest with a Scorpio man can make him see you favorably. Scorpions have exceptional intuition and can easily detect deception. Cancer and Scorpio have a high level of trust, but the reason is simple: both signs are intuitive and can detect dishonesty quickly. Scorpios, despite their exceptional intuition, do not readily trust others. It will take time and effort to build trust with a Scorpio. However, the connection between the two signs is unbreakable once trust is established. When dating or flirting with a Scorpio, be attentive to what they are saying and what they're not saying. Make sure to pay attention to their body language to increase your connection.

Let him chase you.

Allow him to do the chasing--if he loves you, he will want to pursue you. Scorpio men enjoy both mystery and challenge. It's best if you don't come across as overly eager and instead let his interest in you develop naturally. They dislike being pursued because it may make them appear needy and desperate. Make sure you have a life apart from him and don't obsess over getting his attention. Scorpio men appreciate it when you show that you are both busy and interested in them.

Give him genuine compliments.

Scorpio men adore compliments, especially when they come from the person they are dating. You should compliment him on his personality as well as his appearance. Make sure to give him casual compliments throughout a date with a Scorpio man. For example, if he's wearing a new outfit or has a new haircut, make a point of complimenting him on those details. A Scorpio will appreciate not only the compliment, but also the fact that you've noticed things about him and are interested in him.

Allow him take to take the lead.

The Scorpio man enjoys wielding his sexual power. Scorpios tend to be very sexual. Avoid coming on too quickly or too strongly. Allow space for his desire to grow, heightened by sensual looks and touches. Don't be a "slow hand" lover, and don't act rashly. Even though Scorpio is a water sign (feelings), they have a strong sense of realism. They can quickly identify boasters who lack real-world experience. Scorpio men frequently have a strong sense of their own strengths and weaknesses. It may be beneficial to be candid about your own without giving into self-pity or arrogance.

Keep steady with your partner once you're in a relationship.

Scorpio is a possessive sign and won't want to share their partner once they are in a relationship. This, however, is perfectly acceptable to a devoted Cancer. Cancers develop strong attachments to their partners. They'll never want to be alone. A Cancer Scorpio relationship is strong because neither of them wants to end it. Scorpio is a fixed sign. Instead of one-night stands, they prefer what will be ongoing. The Scorpio only reveals his true vulnerability in a bond of trust.